Spent 3 days tuning a single prompt for my chatbot

I was building a customer support bot for my Etsy shop and spent 72 hours tweaking one prompt to stop it from apologizing too much. Turns out adding 'keep responses under 50 words' fixed it instantly. Anyone else burn way too long on tiny AI settings that should be simple?

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victorbutler1mo ago

My neighbor Dave runs a small tool repair shop and he spent a whole weekend trying to get his booking bot to stop saying "I apologize for the inconvenience" when someone just asked for their drill back. He changed it to "sorry you feel that way" which was somehow worse. Finally his teenage daughter looked at it for five minutes and just added a hard rule to never apologize unless the word "broken" appears in the message. Dave was pretty grumpy about the whole thing but he did say the bot works fine now.

the_alice1mo ago

The thing about Dave's fix though is that it only works for one specific case. I spent three days on my prompt because every time I made it less apologetic it started sounding cold or robotic. Adding a word limit was a good shortcut but it doesn't actually solve the deeper problem of tone control. Those little settings are tricky because they interact in ways you don't expect until you test them. I think Dave's approach of just slapping on a rule is fine for now but he might find the bot messes up again when a customer says something like "my tool is busted" instead of "broken". Have you thought about what happens when the bot runs into a message that doesn't fit your simple rule?